Context:
The slang use of "extra" originated in
African-American Vernacular English (AAVE)
in the early 2000s before gaining
significant popularity by 2015 as it spread
through internet memes and social
media. While originally carrying a
somewhat negative connotation of trying too
hard, the term has evolved to include more
playful, affectionate usage.
Friends might teasingly call each other
"extra" when someone is being dramatic, and
many people have reclaimed the term to
proudly self-identify as being
unapologetically over-the-top ("I know I'm
being extra, but I don't care!"). In
its modern usage, calling someone "extra"
can range from gentle mockery to genuine
admiration for their bold, theatrical
approach to life.