Context:
Traditionally, "demure" is used to describe someone, often
a woman, who is reserved, modest & shy. Through a series of videos, TikTok
content creator Jools Lebron, repurposed the traditional meaning of "demure" to
describe a more modern, self-aware approach to personal presentation and social
conduct using the phrase "very demure, very mindful" (which went viral in early August
2024). Lebron's satirical take on the concept involves applying this mindset to
various everyday situations, from workplace attire to airport etiquette.
The phrase has been adopted on social media as an ironic
yet aspirational way to describe a poised and sophisticated demeanor in various social
contexts. Various additions have become common such as "very cutesy, very
thoughtful, very respectful, etc."